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Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Ladies' Retreat Reflections

This past weekend, over fifty women traveled to the Cape to attend this year's ladies' retreat with Mrs. Susan Hunt. A lot of prayer and planning went into this milestone event. For today's blog, I asked Mrs. Ellen Capozzi to write, on behalf of the Ladies' Retreat Planning Team, their impressions of all that occurred last weekend. Here it is:

Our ladies' retreat this year with Susan Hunt was indeed a life-changing event! We learned from God'sWord about our role as women in our homes and in our church.

In Session One, Mrs. Hunt taught us about The Legacy of Biblical Womanhood. We learned that there is headship and submission in the Trinity, just as God has ordained it to be in marriage and in the church. It is a beautiful principle when rightly understood.

In Session Two, we learned about The Proverbs 31 Man and Woman. Proverbs 31 points to Jesus, as does all of Scripture. Mrs. Hunt instructed us not to turn a passage loose until Jesus shows us Himself. Our retreat theme was verses 30 and 31: "...a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Give her of thefruit of her hands, and let her works praise her inthe gates." When we fear God we submit to His rule asKing because we trust Him, even when it seems hard. The LORD is God's personal covenant name. It reveals His personal relationship with us for all eternity. We are His, and He is ours! As we submit to His rule,He transforms us.

Session Three was about Titus 2 - the importance of having Godly character and sound doctrine, and the mandate for older women to teach younger women to love their husbands and children, with the Gospel as our motivation and our power.

During Session Four on Sunday morning, we learned from Psalm 62 that we can trust God at all times because He is strong and He is loving. We learned from Luke 24 that when ourhearts are slow to believe God's promises we are sad. We learned that all Scripture is about Jesus, and that He enables us to understand it. When we see Him, ourhearts are aflame (on fire!). From 2 Timothy welearned of the influence of Timothy's mother and grandmother, even though his father was not a believer.

Our time together ended with a time of personal sharing by several women. Love for the Lord and eachother was overflowing. The teaching that we received this weekend wastruly rich. We are grateful to God for allowing us this time together. We are grateful to Susan Hunt for her loving ministry and example to us, and to our church family for their prayers that went up to God on our behalf. Thank you to our husbands who encouragedus to go and who "held down the fort" till we returned. Last, but not least, thank you to our pastor who lovingly watches over our souls and who labors in the Word week in and week out to build us up in the faith. "To whom much is given, much is required." -- May we rise up as women to fulfill our role as helpers and life-givers, by the grace of God and for His glory!

Having heard the impressions of our Ladies' Retreat Planning Team, I wanted to close by sharing a portion of an e-mail that Susan Hunt sent to one of the Team members after returning home from the retreat:

I hope you are resting and enjoying knowing that you did a great job! The retreat was wonderful. You and the committee cared for me and for the women with such love and grace . . . it was a great encouragement to me to be there. Please thank all of the women for enfolding me in love. Gene and I loved being with you. . . .

It's good to be home, and we brought with us special memories of special people. We prayed this morning that the Lord will use it all for His glory and to accomplish His purposes in the women and in your church.


To Him be all glory,
Susan

We would love to hear more feedbacks from you ladies who went on the retreat. Or perhaps there are some of you men who would like to say a word about your wives. Leave a comment, sharing how you've been encouraged!

2 comments:

  1. I said it this weekend and I will say it here. If I knew the weekend was going to be about Proverbs 31 I wouldn't have gone...and I would have really missed out! I have to say that for the past 36 years I either misunderstood the Proverbs 31 and Titus 2 woman or I was mistaught it but regardless, I think I am straight with it now. My role in the home and church is one of submission to headship, still. What it doesn't mean is that I am "less than". I am the sumbmissive but not any less important than the men of whose authority I am under in my church and the authority of my husband. I think understanding this really helped me embrace my womanhood and God's will for my role. We were instructed that we are pillars. The kind of pillars that support a structure. Without the pillars the structure crumbles. Although, the roof is not more important than the pillar and the pillar not more important than the roof. Get it? So good to follow up with this weekend of connection following our "get right with Jesus" service a few weeks ago.
    "Shine Jesus shine, fill this place with The Father's glory, blaze Spirit blaze, set our hearts on fire!" Pastor Nick, do you take requests? I would love to hear that song in service soon.
    Thank you men for taking care of our precious families while we were gone. Thank you, Greg, for telling me "you're going". I love you, Honey!
    Britt

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  2. I think one thing that has stuck with me from the retreat are the words Compassion and Community. Susan used those two words to describe a biblical woman. I have done much reflection on these two words and have felt much conviction. I hope I began to see FBC as my covenant community more.
    In contrast, a worldy woman was characterized by independence and indifference.
    May I have a burden and love for my home and church with compassion and community instead of being indifferent and independent.
    Thank you ladies for loving me and my family.
    What a weekend!! To God be the Glory!
    Amanda

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