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Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Jesus: The Logos, or Just Another Logo?

Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Worshiping with Your Children
- Help your child become acquainted with your pastor. Let them shake hands with him at the door and be greeted by him.
- Talk about who the worship leaders are; call them by name.
- Suggest that your children's Sunday School teacher invite the pastor to spend a few minutes with the children if your church's Sunday morning schedule allows for that.
- If you know the sermon text for the upcoming Sunday service, read it with your children several times in advance. A little one's face really lights up when he hears familiar words from the pulpit.
- Talk about what is "special" this week: a friend singing, a missionary guest that you have been praying for, the welcoming of new members into the church family, etc.
- Provided there are enough copies, let your child have his or her own bulletin. This helps your child to feel like a welcomed participant right from the very start of the service.
- Encourage your children to take notes. Don't just let them randomly doodle, but draw a picture relative to the sermon or even to take notes, if they are old enough to do so.
- Have your children sit or stand or close their eyes when the service calls for it.
- Make sure they sit up straight and still - not lounging or fidgeting or crawling around, but respectful toward God and the other worshipers nearby.
- Look toward the worship leaders up front. No people-gazing or clock-watching.
- Create an environment in your pew that makes worship easier. Sit between children that are tempted to talk. Sit near the front of the sanctuary. Let your child place the offering envelope in the plate as it is passed. When your children are old enough, encourage them to put in their own offering (from their allowance, gift money, etc.). Share a Bible or songbook with them.
Friday, December 19, 2008
A Reminder by Rhyme
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
The Heavenly Surgeon
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Newsweek's Bible Libel
Friday, December 5, 2008
Got Game?
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Back in the Saddle Again
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Worship - Gone to the Dogs
Friday, November 21, 2008
Hope for the Dense Husband: Your Selfishness Can Work for You - by Jim Elliff
Okay men, we are to love our wives. Most of us do. At least we say we do.
But, the bar for that love to our wives is set so high—so aggravatingly high. Wives, have sympathy for us. God requires us to love you as Christ loved the church! Who can do that?
Notice that the apostle Paul, the author of these words above, tells us to "love" (present tense) as Christ "loved" (past tense). He points first, not to Christ's ongoing love for the true church, but back to His supreme sacrificial act of dying for her. We are to love like that. Impossible!
Certainly, there has never been an act of love to this degree in the history of mankind. The cross was that act of love which presents the Bride, His church, blameless before God, "without spot or wrinkle, or any such thing." It washed and pardoned His church once-for-all, so that all believers will be received into God's eternal world.
We can't accomplish what Christ did when He died. But we are to love our wives in the same way that Christ did—by sacrificing for them. That's the point.
Need Motivation?
So, are we men to live in disappointing failure all our lives, constantly falling short of true biblical love for our wives? Who can consistently love like Jesus did when He died? I've often been so disappointed at the inadequate love I exhibit that I can hardly hold my head up. If you are like me, you need motivation.
Merely acknowledging that Christ's sacrificial act of love is our standard will not provide sufficient motivation to love our wives as we should. It may help us for a day or two, but God knows we need more. Thankfully, He has something to say that will make sacrificial love almost unavoidable. How would you like to fulfill your responsibility as a husband to love sacrificially because you want to, not because you to?
Read his logic:
So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself, for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, because we are members of Christ. (vs. 28-30)
Here is the way it works: He states that Christ'songoing love for the church is due to the fact that the church has been made His own body. As Christians, we are "members" of Christ—that is, we are His hands, feet, ears, nose, and big toe. For Christ to love us is for Christ to love His own body. His love for Himself is the reason for His unselfish love for you.
Like Christ who lovingly cares for his spiritual Body, the church, we naturally care for our physical body! When we tenderly treat that painful hangnail, we are a living illustration of this astounding truth.
So what does all this have to do with loving our wives?
Simple: Our wife is also our own body, according to the Genesis passage Paul cites in his appeal. He concludes, "He who loves His own wife loves himself."
In fact, the more you love yourself, the more you love her! This principle turns selfishness into love! Because we're experts at loving ourselves, I'm confident that even the worst of us can do this!
Men, God has put the cookies down on the table where we can reach them now. Any old slug who can love himself, can love his wife sacrificially. When you are tempted to demean your wife, or dismiss her needs, say, "I'm doing this to myself!" If our perspective is right, our love will be right!
But, the minute you forget that, you will be the same old creep you've always been.
Copyright © 2008 Jim Elliff
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Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Doing Deuteronomy
Friday, November 14, 2008
What to Look for in a Spouse
- She is not only saved but truly loves the Lord and is committed to Him and His Word (Mark 12:30).
- She is morally pure and lives a life of high moral standards. She is a woman of character (1 Thess. 4:3-7).
- She lives in harmony with authority, i.e. parents, church, government (Eph. 6:1-2; 1 Peter 2:13-19).
- She accepts herself as best evidenced by a meek and quiet spirit. She doesn't make physical things her focus - clothes, makeup, etc. (1 Peter 3:1-6).
- She loves her parents, especially her dad. If her parents are divorced or she has been wronged deeply, she forgives and honors them (Eph. 6:1-3).
- She has a purpose in life that includes a high priority on being a wife and mother and homemaker (Titus 2:4-5).
- She is fun and light-hearted, and yet can be serious when the occasion calls for it (Prov. 17:22; Titus 2:4).
- He is not only saved but he truly loves the Lord and is committed to Him and His Word (Mark 12:30).
- He is morally pure and lives a life of high moral standards. He is a man of character (1 Thess. 4:3-7).
- He lives in harmony with authority, i.e. parents, church, government (Eph. 6:1-2; 1 Pet. 2:13-19).
- He accepts himself as best evidenced by a humble and contrite heart. He is temperate and not given to anger (Matt. 11:29; Prov. 22:24; James 1:19).
- He loves his parents, especially his mother. If his parents are divorced or he has been wronged deeply, he forgives and honors them (Eph. 6:1-3).
- He has purpose in life that includes a high priority on spiritual leadership. He loves children (Eph. 5:24-29; Eph. 6:4).
- He is honest and self-denying. He cares deeply about the feelings of those he is responsible for (Luke 9:23).
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Justification and Christian Joy
Friday, November 7, 2008
Family Harmony
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Election Day Encouragement
which cannot be moved, but abides forever.
2As the mountains surround Jerusalem,
so the LORD surrounds his people,
from this time forth and forevermore.
3For the scepter of wickedness shall not rest
on the land allotted to the righteous,
lest the righteous stretch out
their hands to do wrong.
4 Do good, O LORD, to those who are good,
and to those who are upright in their hearts!
5But those who turn aside to their crooked ways
the LORD will lead away with evildoers!
Peace be upon Israel!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Halloween: Hallowed or Harmful?
Monday, October 27, 2008
Abortion: More Than a Political Issue
Friday, October 17, 2008
Avoiding the Sunday Morning Meltdown
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Beware of Study Bibles
Beware of Study Bibles
| Author: Steve Burchett | |
I like resources that help me understand the Bible. My collection of commentaries grows yearly. The amount of books I own addressing various areas of theology numbers in the hundreds. There are a couple of websites that I visit regularly where numerous Bible study tools are offered. I also own four "Study Bibles," which include not only the biblical text, but introductions However, every good gift from God can be abused. Of all the study tools, perhaps in our day the Study Bible is the resource that is most often misused. For example, many who have taught the Bible have felt the frustration when, instead of meditating on the passage of Scripture being taught, several in the group were busy reading and then sharing from the study notes at the bottom of the page! Perhaps some might respond, "But at least these people are trying to understand what the Scriptures say." Indeed, their motives may be pure, but excessive reliance on study notes actually removes them from what a Study Bible intends to promote: The study of the Bible! James tells us to receive and live out the Word of God (James 1:21-22), not what somebody else says about the Bible. The Lord has given the church teachers (Ephesians 4:11), but we should follow the example of the Bereans who not only listened eagerly to Paul's preaching, but were known for "examining the Scriptures daily to see whether these things were so" (emphasis mine). Maybe you are not convinced that you can really understand Scripture apart from the significant aid of others. Perhaps you have been led astray by certain preachers or writers who seem to imply that you have to be an expert in Hebrew or Greek (the original languages of the Old and New Testaments) in order to "really comprehend the Bible." Yes, a knowledge of the original languages is quite valuable, but it is not required. Peter does admit that "some things" in Paul's writings are hard to understand (2 Peter 3:16). Commentaries, Study Bibles, and conversations with other believers are a valuable tool when we come across these places in Scripture. But Peter didn't say everything is hard to understand! In fact, with a careful and contemplative reading of a verse or passage and its surrounding context, and with the help of the Holy Spirit (see 1 John 2:27), we can grasp what God is saying. Probably our larger struggle is living out what we clearly see. Does this mean you should throw away your Study Bible? No, but consider three ways to guard against misusing this tool:
Consider your Bible study methods: Do you spend more time focusing on the text of the Bible, or the words of non-inspired writers who are seeking to explain the Bible? When we are overly dependent on study notes, a subtle shift takes place from living "on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God" (Matthew 4:4) to living "by the words of Bible teachers." As I write, I'm aware of another Study Bible soon to be unveiled. It has been endorsed by a large number of well-known pastors and ministry leaders, and it includes over 20,000 notes, over 50 articles, and over 200 color charts. I'll probably buy one. More, and even better, Study Bibles will surely follow. There is no doubt that they will shed much light on the text of Scripture. But we must beware: They may also distract us from the very thing they are intended to illuminate. Copyright © 2008 Steve Burchett Christian Communicators Worldwide, Inc. Permission granted for not-for-sale reproduction in unedited form including author's name, title, complete content, copyright and weblink. Other uses require written permission. www.CCWtoday.org | |