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Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Bridges to the Gospel

Earlier this afternoon I was heading to the DMV with a couple of my older children to register a car.  We got backed up at the Irondequoit Bridge due to construction (two out of three lanes were shut down).  Not expecting the back-up, I found myself wishing there was some other bridge I could cross.

Do you ever feel that way in witnessing?  Perhaps there is a neighbor, co-worker, classmate, family member or friend that you've been wanting to reach with the gospel.  But you're not exactly sure how.  I have struggled with this at times myself, but this past week I came across a helpful list of suggestions. It's entitled Bridges to the Gospel and is part of a personal evangelism course I'm taking at Southern Seminary.  Having benefitted from this myself, I thought I'd pass it on to the TruthWalk readership.

Bridges to the Gospel

  1. CHURCH Bridge
    • "Were you brought up in a particular religious tradition?"
    • "Do they talk about heaven much in your church?"
    • What does your church teach about the way a person becomes a Christian?"
  2. PERSONAL EXPERIENCE Bridge
    • "Through the years, have you come to know Christ in a personal way, or are you still on the way?"
    • "What is your current level of interest in spiritual things?"
    • "Where are you in your own personal search for meaning and purpose in life?"
  3. INTELLECTUAL Bridge
    • "Is there a specific question or concern that is hanging you up in your spiritual journey?"
    • "Has anyone shared with you what the Bible teaches about . . . ?"
    • "Has anyone ever shared with you how to have a personal relationship with God?"
  4. PERSONAL OPINION Bridge
    • "In your opinion, what is a Christian?"
    • "What do you think of . . . (God, Jesus Christ, religion, the Bible, meaning of life, etc.)?"
  5. CURRENT ISSUES Bridge
    • "Rob, the Bible is a remarkably relevant book.  Would you like to see what it has to say about this issue?"
  6. SPORTS Bridge
    • Did you know that (name of a well-known athlete) is a Christian?"
  7. FELT NEEDS Bridge
    • "You know, I still have my share of problems, but having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ has made all the difference in how I handle them!  I used to worry myself sick; God is teaching me how to have peace in the midst of the storms of life."
    • "Yes, Mary, I have experienced great loneliness in my life.  I used to wonder if anyone would miss me or even care if I died.  But I have found a special Friend who loves me and will never leave me."
  8. PRAYER Bridge
    • "Is there something I could pray about for you?"
  9. RELATIONSHIP Bridge
    • "Bill, we've been friends for a while now.  We have talked together about so many things, yet there is a very important part of my life I have never shared with you.  Could I share with you about my spiritual pilgrimage?"
Over the last few weeks, I have made attempts to implement some of these strategies in my own witnessing efforts.  Just this morning I used the "prayer bridge" with a waitress at a local restaurant while having breakfast meeting with another church member.  The key is being prayerful and intentional about sharing Christ with others.  As I strive to improve my own evangelistic efforts in God's strengths, I find practical resources like this quite helpful.  I hope that you will, too.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.  The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.  All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.  Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us.
- 2 Corinthians 5:17-18, 20

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Misdiagnosis Can Be Deadly


Today I woke up a little more thankful for a new day.  That's because I didn't know till yesterday that I had a blood clot in my leg.  Left unchecked, such a condition can be life-threatening.

It was nearly a week ago while on a walk that I began experiencing some slight pain in the heart of my calf.  I thought perhaps I had a slightly pulled muscle and ignored it.  I continued my walk and even played basketball with my boys later on that day.  The next day the pain grew worse, so I assumed I had aggravated this "pulled muscle" by not stopping my activity when I should have.  For the next few days I forewent my usual walk, shooting hoops with the boys and such.  But instead of getting better, my pain grew worse.

At that point I decided to do some research on the Internet.  After consulting some medical websites, I concluded that I had at the very least a grade II calf strain.  However, such an injury is typically the result of a traumatic event; there's usually no question as to when it occurred.  But such was not my experience, which left me a little concerned that perhaps it was something else.  My brother had experienced a blood clot in his leg (DVT) a few years ago, and the DVT symptoms are quite similar to an acute calf strain.  I was pretty sure I didn't have a blood clot; still, I couldn't shake this concern from my mind.

Over the next couple of days, I did next to nothing.  Yet the pain in my leg continued to increase.  There was swelling and redness as well.  At this point I got pretty anxious and decided to visit the doctor the following day if I didn't notice any improvement in the morning.

No improvement took place, so yesterday I was able to get in to see my doctor as early as 10 a.m.  He looked at my leg, considered the symptoms, and reached the same conclusion I had -- that this was most likely a grade II calf strain.  But to rule out a blood clot, he sent me to a vascular lab the next town over to undergo an ultra-sound.  It was there that they discovered conclusively that I indeed had a blood clot.

This changed everything.  They sent me right back to the doctor who changed my prescription entirely. I was to be put on Coumadin (warfarin) immediately, but since this would take five days to become effective, I was to take two shots of heparin twice a day until then.

I'm still not "out of the woods" but am thankful that I'm now receiving the proper treatment and should recover soon.  Indeed, the Lord's mercies are new every morning; great is his faithfulness!

As I look back on what has transpired the last few days, I'm reminded of just how important an accurate diagnosis is to receiving proper treatment.  When I thought I had a calf strain, I was both heating it and icing it (not a good idea).  Furthermore, I had my wife put deep-heat rub on my calf and massage it (not a good idea).  The doctor, thinking also that this was a calf strain, initially gave me the wrong prescription (not a good idea).  All these things which were to help me, could in fact have killed me.

Looking at this matter from an evangelistic standpoint, I'm reminded of how important it is to tell people their true condition before God and to administer the only remedy that God has prescribed.  Scripture informs us that the heart of every person is "desperately sick"--and deceptive!  The only one who can rightly diagnose its condition is God (Jer. 17:9-10).  

In reference to my own situation, I could have convinced myself that I didn't have a blood clot, but that wouldn't have changed the fact that I did and would have inevitably suffered the consequences of my condition, which was life-threatening.  Scripture says explicitly, "For the wages of sin is death" (Rom. 6:23) and that "all have sinned" (Rom. 3:23).  The only remedy to our deadly condition is Jesus Christ, who died for our sins, rose from the dead, and now reigns in heaven offering forgiveness and eternal life to all who put their trust in him.  "Nor is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12).

This is the truth.  To misdiagnose people's condition is to be guilty of spiritual malpractice.  We must tell people the truth if we are to rescue them.

Moreover, we must speak the truth in love.  In his excellent book on evangelism, Tell the Truth, Will Metzger writes,
In all our emphasis on teaching the truth of the whole gospel, we would be denying part of this gospel if we were not listening and being sensitive to the person we face.  If we don't treat people as persons when we witness to them, we deny a basic tenet of the very gospel in which we believe.  If we turn this  [gospel] outline into a formula, we have depersonalized those we encounter.  We can be blunt about the hard subject of sin with a person, if at the same time we treat that person as a unique individual.
One more thing:  When I got to the pharmacy counter to get my prescription, the pharmacist asked me, "Did the doctor tell you how much this cost?"  I replied in the negative, so the pharmacist proceeded to inform me that the medication cost a little over seven hundred dollars.  I about died right there!  In fact, I almost considered taking the risk of waiting the five days till the Coumadin kicked in.  But of course that would have been foolish.  It wasn't worth the risk.

How much more is this true in reference to our condition before God?  The remedy to our sin condition cost a hell of a lot more than seven hundred dollars.  I don't say that lightly but literally.  Jesus Christ, the Son of God, bore the full wrath of God the Father against our sin.  The price has already been paid. Salvation has been provided!  The question is, will we receive this cure that is freely offered to us in Christ, or will we go on trying to convince ourselves that our condition is really not all that serious?

Finally, for those of us who have been cured and cleansed by the blood of Christ, will we be faithful in telling others how they too can be cured, or will we keep this remedy to ourselves, content to let the rest of the world perish in their sins?

Lots to think about.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

"How to Give Away Your Faith" - Book Review


Little, Paul E. How to Give Away Your Faith, rev. ed. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2008. 202 pp. $15.00.


Introduction
            How to Give Away Your Faith, Paul Little’s practical guide to personal evangelism, was first published in 1966 by InterVarsity Press.  This is the publishing arm of InterVarsity Christian Fellowship (IVCF), a ministry marked by its long-standing commitment “To know Christ and to make Him known,” particularly through campus evangelism and discipleship initiatives.  Paul Little served with ICVF for twenty-five years, traveling extensively throughout the United States and five continents until he was killed in an automobile accident in 1975.
            In addition to his work with InterVarsity, Little also served as associate professor of evangelism at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School in Deerfield, Illinois, and authored additional books such as Know What You Believe and Know Why You Believe. 

Summary
            Operating on the assumption that his readers already wantto witness, Little described his publication as “a book on instruction rather than exhortation” to witness (13).  What he does not assume, however, is that all professing Christians are truly saved.  So he spends the first chapter emphasizing genuine faith, which involves an initial personal commitment to Jesus Christ and is accompanied by an ongoing love and obedience to Christ as Lord and Savior. 
            Having been reconciled to God, the committed Christian does not live in isolation from the world.  He understands that he is God’s representative and that “the greatest favor [he] can do for others is to introduce them to Jesus Christ” (41).  This requires relationship building, which can be fostered through good listening skills, eye contact, a positive attitude, and hospitality.  Prayer also is essential for witnessing opportunities and stimulating compassion for the lost.
            In chapter three, Little sets forth Jesus’ example in witnessing to others, particularly the Samaritan woman in John 4.   Drawing from this encounter, the author presents eight principles:  “Meet and know non-Christians personally; establish a mutual interest in conversation, arouse a person’s interest by life and word; gear explanations to people’s receptiveness and readiness for more; accept and even compliment rather than condemn; stay on the track; and persevere to the destination” (75).
Following these guidelines, says Little, will improve one’s witness and add zest to life.
            Having laid out a general strategy for witnessing, the author then deals with some of the social barriers that believers regularly encounter as they rub shoulders with unbelievers.  The key to one’s response in any given situation is to remember that his role is that of an ambassador, and therefore his goal is to reconcile people to God who alone can “transform hearts and behaviors” (79).  Rather than condemning or correcting unbelievers, Christians should be winsome, making use of the casual touch, maintaining a healthy sense of humor, and offering helpful alternatives to activities that are sinful or don’t interest them.  The point is to relate to others in such a way that a platform is created for sharing the gospel in a loving and understandable way.
            Speaking of the gospel, Little devotes chapter five to clarifying the Christian message.  Articulating the gospel is essential to avoiding unnecessary confusion in the minds of unbelievers.  At the heart of the gospel is Jesus Christ--who he is (fully God and fully man), how he views the human condition (sinful to the core), and the salvation he provided for mankind through his death and resurrection.   These gospel truths can be expressed through a variety of simple evangelistic outlines (e.g. Romans Road, Four Steps to God, Religion versus Christianity) but must never be presented mechanically.  For those who end up professing faith in Christ, follow-up is essential.  Babes in Christ need to be assured of their salvation through the promises of God; they need to know how to read their Bibles, to pray, and to deal with sin in their lives; they need to be enriched by fellowship with other believers while continuing to maintain healthy relationships with non-Christians.  Those further along in the faith can and must encourage new Christians in these areas.
            In chapter six, Little delves into apologetic matters, insisting that “unless we are fully persuaded in our own minds that Jesus Christ is the truth, we will never effectively communicate the gospel to someone else” (111).  In defending the faith, Christians must avoid two tendencies.  The first is to adopt an anti-intellectual attitude that fails to respond to people’s  objections and questions regarding the Christian faith (e.g. the exclusivity of Christ, problem of evil, reliability of Scripture).  The other tendency is to rely too heavily on such answers as though they themselves can bring people to salvation.  God alone can transform hearts; the evangelist must rely on him.
            In the closing chapters, the author reiterates the relevance of Christ to the world today, while stressing the need for Christians to abstain from worldliness, the essence of which is self-indulgence.  Genuine spirituality is looking at life from God’s vantage point, and living one’s life by faith to God’s glory.   “The key” to victorious Christian living, says Little, “is being totally sold out, without reservation, to Jesus Christ” (179).  As goes one’s walk, so goes his witness.

Critical Evaluation
            Little set out to write a book designed to instruct Christians, rather than to exhort them, on witnessing.  Yet the manner in which the author presents the material is highly motivating.  He models in his writing the very traits he wants his readers to cultivate in their witnessing (48).  For instance, he establishes common ground by identifying with the reader’s desire to witness but ignorance regarding how to go about doing it (17).  He also conveys enthusiasm in presenting the material.  One can sense his genuine excitement over sharing the gospel with lost people.  Furthermore, Little makes himself interesting, particularly through his lavish use of illustrations and analogies.  For instance, he compares Christians unsure of the content of their message to a student who understands a mathematical problem when the professor explains it in class but then has trouble articulating what he learned to another student who missed the class (92).  Analogies such as this arrest the reader’s attention and help him relate to, and remember, any given point.  The author’s winsome spirit and writing style no doubt contributed to the popularity of his book.
            The content itself was also solid and went far in accomplishing the author’s objective to write an instruction manual on witnessing.  Little is to be commended for his emphasis, from start to finish, on the Christian’s personal walk with God.  In chapter one, the author sets forth the “startling possibility” (29) that one’s faith may not consist of true commitment to Christ but may be the product of one’s Christian upbringing or surroundings.  This is followed by a recitation of Jesus’ warning, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven,but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven” (Matt 7:21).  In closing the book, Little emphasizes once again the need to feed one’s personal relationship with God.  Knowing Scripture is not enough, for “the Bible’s purpose is to bring us into contact with the living God in Jesus Christ” (190).  Indeed, developing this “secret life with God is essential for an effective witness to a world who has yet to meet the God who alone can satisfy their every need” (198).
            Within this framework of one’s personal relationship with the living God, Little does an exemplary job in outfitting his readers with practical tools for presenting the gospel.  One of the most helpful sections was the “seven basic questions” (though Little actually lists eight) in reference to the Christian faith (116-135).  These are the issues Little encountered most in his countless interactions with people over many years of witnessing.  By proactively raising and responding to such questions, Little provides immense help to those who are timid about witnessing in light of issues which may arise in the course of conversation.  By giving simple solutions to these oft-asked questions, the author ably equips his readers to be ready always to give an answer to anyone who asks them to give a reason for the hope that they have (1 Pet 3:15).
            Another compelling feature of this book was the inclusion of repentance in the gospel presentation.  Little writes, “The essence of sin is living independently of God--going our own way rather than his way” (100-101), then proceeds to declare, “The substance of repentance is the repudiation of our self-centered lives and making Christ and his will the center of our lives” (101).  This call to repentance in sharing the gospel is both biblical and encouraging, especially in the midst of an evangelical culture that has largely downplayed repentance and the lordship of Christ.
            At times weakness has been described as strength taken to an extreme.  In his attempt to promote personal evangelism, Little fails to stress the importance of the church.  He mentions it as a matter of follow-up, i.e. helping new Christians to find fellowship (107-108).  But the church is also a powerful source of witness to the world as its members express worship through personaltestimony (1 Cor 14:24-25) and acts of loving service toward one another (John 13:34-35).  Had Little emphasized the evangelistic components of church life, he could have iterated all the more its importance in light of Scripture and also further supported the evangelistic thrust of his book.

Conclusion
            How to Give Away Your Faith has withstood the test of time, and, with over a million copies in print, continues to demonstrate that it is a valuable resource (if not “the classic guide”) to personal evangelism.  The practical nature of the book as well as the energetic writing style of the author renders it useful both to new believers and also to those further along in the faith who want to “put feet to their theology” by heralding the life-transforming message of Jesus Christ.